So I am sure to catch it for writing  this, but this is a significant matter in our lives right now.  This is not published on my blog, but printed only here.
 Tommy gave us all  scare over the weekend.  In fact, it was the same night we were to have dinner at his brothers.  The first time they had invited us over since the wedding.  A nice time was to be had, making dinner and all.  But we had an awful disruption. He had a buddy come in and they decided to party.  HARD and STUPID.   I want to say so much about it so we never forget, but then again most of us won't need this to remember.   His friend did not fare as well as Tom.  Tommy was discharged the same night, his friend was in ICU for three days.   We will never know the whole story as they are both over 18, but then again, at what point does it really matter?  We see how things are.  I knew the minute I walked into the ER.   I am just thankful that God is patient and has given them both yet another day to live.  The price is still being paid.  He had to get stitches in his hand and this in turn has had him lose a few weeks in pay.   I had taken some food over, but didn't do extreme.  Much of it was stuff mom and dad sent out when they left.   Just no more words....